How involved should I be in the open house process?

Hi Jean, everyone has correctly told you to leave during the open house, and they are right: buyers will not open closets, linger, or speak honestly with the owner standing in the kitchen. But "leave" does not mean "uninvolved." Your job is before and after. Before, your checklist: - Lock away medications, valuables, spare keys, mail, and anything with account numbers on it. Open houses bring strangers, and this is the part sellers forget - Pets and pet evidence out of the house - Write your agent a one-page cheat sheet: roof age, HVAC age, utility costs, HOA details, what you love about the street. When a buyer asks and the agent answers instantly and specifically, your house feels well cared for - Lights on, blinds open, house cool. In a Chandler summer, a cold house at 2pm is its own selling feature After, this is where you should be demanding. Ask your agent for a real debrief within a day: - How many groups came through, and how many had agents - What did people say, unfiltered - Any objection you hear twice is not an opinion, it is data. Twice on price means the price. Twice on the dark kitchen means bulbs and paint, not a remodel One quiet truth: open houses rarely sell the house directly. They market it, and they surface the feedback that tells you what to fix. Treat yours as a paid focus group. I am a real estate professional in Los Angeles, in the South Bay, and the sellers who treat feedback as data instead of insult are the ones who sell faster. Happy to connect you with a great Chandler-area agent from my network if you ever need one. Zoltan

Jean, a competent agent should be able to handle the whole process for your open house. Keith Jean-Pierre Managing Principal The Dapper Agents Real Estate Operations in ALL 50 States

Jean, it is usually best for sellers to leave during an open house. Buyers feel more comfortable looking around and speaking honestly when the owner is not there. Your role is to clean, declutter, secure valuables, and let your agent handle questions, feedback, and follow-up.

In most cases, it's best to let your agent host the open house. Buyers tend to feel more comfortable asking questions and giving honest feedback when the seller isn't present. Your role is to make sure the home is clean, well-prepared, and easy to show. Your agent will handle the marketing, answer buyer questions, gather feedback, and follow up with interested buyers. — Becky Groe Coldwell Banker Realty

No need just let your realtor handle it

As the seller, your role in the open house process is important, but you do not need to be directly involved during the actual event. Your biggest responsibility is making sure the home is clean, accessible, and show-ready before the open house begins. That means removing clutter, securing valuables, putting away personal documents, making sure pets are safely out of the home, and allowing the property to feel as neutral and welcoming as possible for buyers. Once the open house starts, the seller shouldn't be present. Buyers tend to feel more comfortable walking through the home, asking questions, and giving honest feedback. Your agent's job is to host the open house, point out the home's best features, answer questions, gather feedback, and identify serious buyers.

I love when my clients are involved throughout the sale of their home, but when it comes to open houses, I do think it's best if you're not there. Buyers tend to feel much more comfortable walking through the home, asking questions, and really picturing themselves living there when the seller isn't present. A lot of people also feel like they're intruding or bothering the homeowner if they're there, which can make them less likely to spend time exploring the home or asking questions. My job is to make them feel comfortable, highlight your home's best features, and gather honest feedback while you get to leave it in my hands.

This is a question I get often, and my advice is almost always the same: it's best for the seller not to be home during an open house. When buyers walk through a home, they want to feel comfortable opening closets, discussing the layout, and sharing their honest opinions. If the homeowner is present, many buyers will hold back or rush through the showing because they don't want to offend anyone. As your Realtor, my job is to welcome visitors, answer questions about the home and neighborhood, point out features buyers might otherwise miss, and gather valuable feedback. Buyers also tend to be more candid with an agent than they are with the homeowner. Before the open house, your role is to make sure the home is clean, decluttered, and ready to show. Then, it's best to step out for a few hours and let your agent do what they do best. If a buyer has a very specific question that only you can answer—such as details about a renovation, utility costs, or warranties—your agent can always contact you during or after the open house. Think of it this way: buyers aren't just shopping for a house; they're trying to picture it as their home. Giving them the space to do that often leads to a better experience and, ultimately, stronger offers.

. Buyers feel so much more comfortable exploring, asking questions, and picturing themselves living there when the homeowner isn't around. My honest suggestion is to leave the house entirely, go catch a movie, run errands, anything that gets you out for a few hours. Where you can help is before I arrive. Turn on all the lights, open the window shades, and give the home a final tidy so it shows at its best. Little touches go a long way too, soft background music and the smell of fresh baked cookies make a home feel instantly warm and welcoming to anyone walking through. Once that's done, the rest is on me. I'll be there to put buyers at ease, highlight what makes your home special, and gather honest feedback to bring back to you afterward. So for this piece, the best thing you can do is set the stage, then go enjoy your afternoon and trust the process.

Most sellers should be minimally involved or not present during open houses. Your agent is trained to answer questions, highlight the home, and manage buyer feedback without the seller there. In fact, sellers being present can sometimes make buyers feel uncomfortable or rushed. The best role for a seller is to prepare the home before the open house (clean, declutter, light staging if needed), then let the agent handle everything during the event and provide feedback afterward. In short, prep the home well, then step back and let your agent do the work.

In my opinion, I'd leave it up to your agent to answer all the questions open house visitors have. Some buyers might feel intimated at an open house when seller's are present and as sellers you might get approached by buyers trying to ask you questions about offers, price, etc. That may essentially make you feel uncomfortable too. Get the house ready for the open house and let your agent be the one to communicate directly with visitors!

While most agents will just tell you to disappear, look at it this way: your actual "job" during an open house isn’t to sell the property, but to curate the perfect environment before you step out. Think of yourself as the backstage crew setting the stage so your agent can perform. If you focus entirely on making sure the home is spotless, fresh-smelling, and completely decluttered, you’ve done your part. Once that's set, you can confidently hand over the keys and let your agent handle the spotlight. That said, I've had a few unique properties that the sellers have stayed around to answer questions but they were really unique. Best of luck on your sale - ask your agent what to expect (when they will arrive, leave and anything they need while they are there). Then enjoy your day!!

It is best to leave the home and go enjoy a movie or something so you are not around. Buyers feel much more comfortable when homeowners are not around. You can certainly turn on all the lights and open all the window shades and spruce up and clean the home to make it more presentable to buyers and help the agent out prior to the open house. Also, light music and fresh baked cookies make a home always welcoming!

Hi Jean! Please leave it to your agent entirely, the best way you can help is making sure the house is decluttered and cleaned. Your agent will take it from there and make sure the buyers feel comfortable to look around. When the seller is there it is hard for the buyer to get fully comfortable and imagine living there themselves.

I recommend that sellers not be present during an open house. Buyers are much more comfortable exploring the home, opening closets, asking questions, and imagining themselves living there when the homeowner isn't present. Even well-meaning sellers can unintentionally make buyers feel like they are intruding or need to rush through the home. Your job is to prepare the home. My job is to market it. Before the open house, make sure the home is clean, decluttered, and ready to show. Follow your agent's recommendations—they only get one chance to make a first impression. In my Seller Guide, I provide a detailed open house checklist because those little details matter. Once everything is ready, I encourage my sellers to leave for a few hours. Go to lunch, catch a movie, visit friends, or take a walk. Just don't stay nearby watching the open house from down the street. Trust your agent to do their job. As the listing agent, I'll answer questions, point out features buyers may overlook, gauge their level of interest, and collect honest feedback. Buyers are often much more candid when the seller isn't within earshot. One small exception is if your agent has a question about the home that only you can answer. In that case, a quick text or phone call is all that's needed. The best open houses are a team effort. The seller prepares the home so it shows at its absolute best. The agent handles the marketing, the buyers, and the feedback. That allows each person to focus on what they do best.

Leave it to the agent, that is what you are paying them for, let them shoulder the stress, not you.

In most cases, it's better for the seller not to be present during an open house. Buyers tend to feel more comfortable exploring the home, asking candid questions, and discussing what they like or dislike when the owner isn't there. You should be involved: Before the open house by making sure the home looks its best. After the open house by reviewing the feedback your agent collected and discussing any suggested pricing or presentation changes. If your agent has questions about the home's history, improvements, or unique features that only you can answer. Overall, unless there's a specific reason for you to attend, the best practice is to let your agent host the open house while you stay away. It usually creates a more relaxed atmosphere for buyers and often leads to more honest conversations and stronger offers.