The rules on this changed after your question was posted, and the change is good news for exactly your situation. What you are describing has an official name now: a delayed marketing exempt listing. Quick background, because the vocabulary matters. NAR's Clear Cooperation Policy requires that once a listing is publicly marketed, it goes into the MLS within one business day. That policy is still in force. In March 2025 NAR added a second option alongside it, called Multiple Listing Options for Sellers, which MLSs had to implement by September 30, 2025. Under it you have three real choices: A normal listing, in the MLS and syndicated everywhere. A delayed marketing exempt listing. It is filed with the MLS and other agents can see it and show it to their buyers, but it is held back from public sites and syndication for a window your MLS sets. You have to sign a disclosure showing you understand you are waiving the benefits of immediate public marketing. An office exclusive, where you tell your agent not to put it in the MLS at all. It still has to be filed with the MLS, but it is not shared with other agents. Now to your actual question. Do they sell for more or less? Less, on average, and the reason is mechanical rather than mysterious. Price above the obvious is produced by competition, and competition requires that competing buyers know the house exists. Restrict who knows and you restrict who can bid. Any agent who tells you a truly private sale reliably nets more is selling you something. But your situation is the one where the middle option genuinely earns its keep. You have young kids and you want to avoid a parade of strangers. A delayed marketing exempt listing gets your house in front of every agent in your MLS, which is the buyer pool that matters most, without it hitting the public portals where the volume of casual showings comes from. You get most of the exposure and much less of the chaos. That is a very different trade from a true pocket listing where only one office knows. Two practical notes. Ask your agent specifically how long your MLS's delayed marketing window is, because NAR left that to each MLS and they vary. And be clear on what happens at the end of the window, because if the house does not sell during it, it goes public with days on market already accumulating. One more idea that solves your real problem directly: whichever route you pick, require 24 hour notice and set specific showing blocks, for example two windows a week plus one weekend afternoon. Concentrated showings are much easier to live through with kids than scattered ones, and buyers seeing other buyers in the driveway is not a bad thing for you either. I am Zoltan Peresztegi, a real estate professional working Los Angeles and the South Bay in California, so Barrington is not my market. Glad to help you find a strong north suburban Chicago agent who has actually used the delayed marketing option, since not every agent has. Zoltan


