What are some questions you wish you asked when buying your first home?
My fiance and I are beginning the process to buy a home. We're starting to meet realtors to choose one and go forward with the search. Trying to come up with questions to ask the realtor about the home so that we don't make a mistake and also so that we get the most information.
Asked by Grayson | Springfield, MA| 03-16-2026| 141 views|Buying|Updated 1 month ago
Good question. Most first-time buyers don’t ask enough about the future cost and reality of the home.
Here are the ones that actually matter:
Ask what’s going to cost you money soon. Not just “what’s wrong,” but what will need to be replaced in the next few years.
Ask why the seller is moving and how long the home has been on the market. That tells you leverage.
Ask about recent comps and how this home compares. Not just price, but condition vs others.
Ask what the real monthly cost looks like. Taxes, insurance, HOA, utilities. Not just the mortgage.
Ask about the neighborhood at different times. Noise, traffic, parking, anything that changes after hours.
Ask if there’s anything that could hurt resale later. Busy road, layout issues, school zones, nearby developments.
Ask what they would worry about if they were buying it themselves. That one usually gets the most honest answer.
You don’t need 50 questions. You just need the ones that uncover cost, risk, and future resale.
You want to ask the agent to prepare a market analysis for you and print out the mls sheet so that you can do a good comparison in square footage, and lot size, garage etc. Also, look at the pictures! Some homes compare in size however, not everyone takes care of their home.
Working with first time home-buyers is a very delicate transaction. You don't want to work with just anyone. The most important questions you should ask before selecting an agent would be the follow in my opinion:
How long have you been working in real estate? You don't want a new agent fresh out of school just trying to get their first transaction closed. Someone experienced that can give you the guidance and along the way. It's a big purchase so you want an experienced agent.
How many first-time buyers have you helped? This is important because first time home buyers are inexperienced and unknowledgeable so they need a agent that knows what they are doing. They are different then working with someone who has purchased 1 or 2 houses prior.
How well do you know this area and the local market? knowing the area and the market is crucial they have to match the home buyer's needs. Just because you like a house the area may not be what you expressed during your consultation. And knowing the local market will help with placing a reasonable offer on a home that you choose.
What neighborhoods would you recommend for my budget? Budget, location and your lifestyle all have to be considered when purchasing a home. You need an agent that can guide you and keep you within your means. If you say you want to stay within a certain mortgage payment then that is what your agent should be focusing on.
I have read all of the other agents responses and I totally agree with them as well.
First off, congrats to you both! This is such an exciting time and you're already doing it right by asking questions before you even start.
Honestly the ones I wish more buyers asked early on:
How long has it been on the market and has the price dropped? That tells you a lot about whether you have negotiating room.
Why is the seller moving? You'd be surprised what people will tell you, and it can work in your favor.
What's the age on the big stuff, roof, AC, water heater? Those are the things that'll cost you if they're on their way out.
Has any work been done without permits? This one catches people off guard at closing all the time.
What are the total costs out of pocket, not just the down payment? There are closing costs, inspections, and other fees that sneak up on first timers.
And honestly the biggest one, what happens if the inspection finds something bad? Know your options before you're emotionally attached to a house.
You're already ahead of most people just by asking. Find an agent who makes you feel comfortable asking every single question, no matter how small. There are no dumb questions when you're buying your first home, trust me!First off, congrats to you both! This is such an exciting time and you're already doing it right by asking questions before you even start.
Honestly the ones I wish more buyers asked early on:
How long has it been on the market and has the price dropped? That tells you a lot about whether you have negotiating room.
Why is the seller moving? You'd be surprised what people will tell you, and it can work in your favor.
What's the age on the big stuff, roof, AC, water heater? Those are the things that'll cost you if they're on their way out.
Has any work been done without permits? This one catches people off guard at closing all the time.
What are the total costs out of pocket, not just the down payment? There are closing costs, inspections, and other fees that sneak up on first timers.
And honestly the biggest one, what happens if the inspection finds something bad? Know your options before you're emotionally attached to a house.
You're already ahead of most people just by asking. Find an agent who makes you feel comfortable asking every single question, no matter how small. There are no dumb questions when you're buying your first home, trust me!
Don’t just focus on questions about the home. Focus on choosing the right agent and process, because that’s what actually protects you from mistakes.
A good agent will surface the right questions for every property.
The right agent will:
slow you down when needed
point out things you don’t see
help you compete when it matters
protect you from bad decisions
The wrong agent will just open doors and write offers. An agent's experience will help you find a great house that fits your lifestyle and family.
When I work with buyers at the beginning of the home search, I always tell them not to stress about asking the ‘perfect’ question right away. My job is to help them ask the right questions on every property so they understand the home, the costs, and any possible red flags before making an offer.
Some of the questions I walk my clients through are:
How long has the home been on the market?
Have there been any price reductions?
How old are the roof, HVAC, plumbing, and electrical?
Are there any known issues or repairs that need to be addressed?
What are the taxes, HOA fees, and average utility costs?
What should we be thinking about for resale down the road?
I also help my buyers look beyond the finishes and ask whether the home makes sense financially, structurally, and long term. A good Realtor should help you feel informed, not rushed.
A lot of first-time buyers ask, “Do I love this house?”
A better question is, “Do I understand everything that comes with it?”
It’s important to ask about the true monthly payment, the age of major systems like the roof and HVAC, any known issues or repairs, and how the home compares to others nearby. You also want to know whether the home makes sense for resale down the road.
This is a smart way to approach it.
Most buyers think the key is just finding the right house. In reality, a big part of avoiding mistakes is asking the right questions of the Realtor you hire first, because the quality of your guidance will shape every decision after that.
I would focus less on “What questions should we ask about the house?” and more on:
What questions should we ask the agent so we know they will help us evaluate homes well?
Here are some strong ones:
How do you help buyers look beyond cosmetic details and spot things that could affect resale, layout, or future value?
When we walk through a home, what kinds of issues are you paying attention to that most buyers miss?
How do you advise clients on location factors like street noise, traffic patterns, train proximity, schools, or neighborhood fit?
How do you help buyers decide what is a real red flag versus what is just normal homeownership?
If we like a house, how do you help us evaluate pricing, competition, and whether it is actually a smart buy?
How do you handle inspections, negotiations, and due diligence so buyers do not feel rushed into a mistake?
Will we be working directly with you, or with other members of your team?
That last one matters more than people realize.
You can also ask house-specific questions when touring, such as:
How long has this property been on the market, and why do you think that is?
What should we be noticing here that may not be obvious at first glance?
How do you think this home will compare when it is time to resell?
Are there any concerns with layout, location, upkeep, or future costs that you would want your own family to think about?
A good buyer’s agent should not just unlock doors. They should help you evaluate the home, the location, the terms, and the long-term fit with clear, honest guidance.
The biggest mistake buyers make early on is choosing an agent based on personality alone instead of asking how that person actually advises, protects, and negotiates.
Nancy Moore
Vice President, CBR, CRP, GRI, SRES
Gibson Sotheby's Intl Realty
Needham, MA
(781) 424-3527
For many first-time homebuyers, there are a lot of important questions that should be answered before starting the process.
Some of the most common questions include:
• What type of loan is best for me?
• How much money do I need for a down payment?
• What will my monthly payment actually be?
• How much home can I realistically afford?
• What are the closing costs?
• Does the home need repairs or improvements?
Your lender will help you with the financial side by providing a loan estimate that outlines the numbers, including your projected monthly payment and estimated closing costs. This helps determine what you can comfortably afford.
Your real estate agent will then help guide you through the home search, explain the details of the process, and help you evaluate properties—especially when it comes to potential repairs, value, and negotiating the best deal.
Buying your first home comes with a lot of questions, and having the right lender and agent working together can make the process much smoother.
A great question to ask when buying your first home is:
“Are there any known issues with the home or major systems such as the roof, HVAC, plumbing, or electrical that may need repairs soon?”
This question helps you understand potential future costs and ensures there are no surprises after closing. A good Realtor should be transparent and help guide you through inspections so you feel confident about your decision.
These are some good questions to ask:
Do you have experience representing buyers and sellers in the neighborhoods I'm looking at?
Do you have experience representing buyers and sellers with the sale or purchase of homes similar to the homes I will be looking at?
Can I preview your Buyer Representation Agreement now? Followed by, what fees do you charge? How are you compensated? What happens if a Seller is not willing to cover your entire fee?
Do you have a list of preferred lenders that I can speak with?
Do you have any past customers or clients who would be willing to speak to me about their experience with you?
Here are some questions to ask your Realtor when purchasing a new home. What are the current days on market in the area you are looking to buy? When you find a house, ask how long the house has been on the market. Has the property gone under contract and came back on since it's been on the market - if so, why, and can we see the home inspection? What are the ages of the roof, hot water heater, furnace and ac unit.
Congratulations, Grayson, that is exciting. When interviewing agents, ask if they have a comprehensive buyer's guide. Many times, a good buyer's guide will answer many first-time homebuyer questions and set you up for a productive interview and a successful process. Our buyer's guide is set up for California buyers but is very helpful. I'm happy to send you a copy if you like. Email me at [email protected].
When buying your first home, it helps to ask questions that go beyond what you see during a showing. Start by asking why the seller is moving and how long the home has been on the market, as this can reveal useful context and possible negotiating room. It’s also important to understand the age and condition of major systems such as the roof, HVAC, water heater, plumbing, and electrical, since these can be costly to replace.
Buyers should also ask about the true monthly cost of owning the home, including property taxes, insurance, utilities, HOA fees, and maintenance. It’s wise to ask if there are any known issues with the property, such as water intrusion, foundation concerns, or sewer or septic problems. Additionally, consider asking about neighborhood conditions at different times of day, including traffic, noise, and parking.
Finally, ask your agent about recent comparable sales to understand if the home is priced appropriately and whether there are any future developments or zoning changes nearby. It’s also helpful to discuss recommended inspections for the property and how competitive the home may be before making an offer. A great final question is asking your agent what they would investigate further if they were buying the home themselves.
🏡 Smart Questions to Ask Your Realtor About a Home
1. Why is the seller moving?
This can reveal a lot:
job relocation
downsizing
problem with the house or neighborhood
It can also hint at how motivated the seller is to negotiate.
2. How long has the home been on the market?
Follow up with:
Have there been any price reductions?
Have there been previous offers?
If a home has sat longer than average, you may have negotiating power.
3. What comparable homes sold for recently?
Realtors will pull comparables (“comps”) from the National Association of Realtors Multiple Listing Service (MLS).
Ask:
Are we looking at a fair price?
Are homes selling above or below asking price?
4. Are there any known issues with the house?
Important things to ask about:
roof age
HVAC age
plumbing
electrical
foundation
past water damage
A good realtor should already be watching for red flags.
5. What major repairs or updates have been done?
Ask for:
year of the roof
HVAC replacement
appliances
renovations with permits
This helps you estimate future maintenance costs.
6. What are the total monthly costs?
Beyond the mortgage, ask about:
property taxes
homeowners insurance
HOA fees
flood insurance if applicable
In coastal areas like Mobile, flood insurance can sometimes matter depending on the zone.
7. What does the inspection usually reveal for homes like this?
Every region has common issues.
For example in the Gulf South:
moisture issues
termites
roof damage from storms
aging HVAC systems
Ask what inspectors usually find in similar homes.
8. Are there any HOA rules or restrictions?
If there is an HOA, ask:
monthly fees
rental restrictions
renovation restrictions
parking rules
Some HOAs can be very strict.
9. How competitive will an offer need to be?
Ask your realtor:
Are homes getting multiple offers?
Are buyers waiving contingencies?
What’s a realistic offer strategy?
This tells you how aggressive you may need to be.
10. Are there any potential resale concerns?
Even if you plan to stay a long time, ask:
Is the location desirable?
Any nearby developments planned?
Is the home harder to sell later?
A good realtor should always think about resale value.
🔍 Questions That Reveal Hidden Problems
These are questions many buyers forget to ask:
Is this house in a flood zone?
Has the property ever had an insurance claim?
Are there any easements on the property?
Was the house ever under contract before and why did it fall through?
What are the average utility costs?
🧠 One Power Question
This is one of the best questions you can ask any realtor:
“If you were buying this house, what would concern you?”
A good realtor will often tell you things they might not otherwise mention.
✅ Tip: The best agents will also point out flaws themselves. If an agent only talks about how great every house is, that’s a red flag.
Great question! I always recommend buyers ask about the four major components of a home: the roof, electrical, plumbing, and foundation. Those are some of the most important things that can impact long-term cost.
One question many first-time buyers wish they asked earlier is: “Are there any first-time homebuyer programs or incentives available to me?”
Many buyers are surprised to learn that there are state and federal programs designed to make buying a home more affordable. For example, in Maine there are programs through MaineHousing that can offer benefits like lower fixed-rate mortgages, little-to-no down payment options, and assistance with down payment or closing costs.
Another question I encourage buyers to ask is:
What will my total monthly payment really be? (taxes, insurance, and utilities can add up)
How competitive is this market and what strategies help offers stand out?
How much should I realistically budget for maintenance after buying?
Buying your first home is exciting, but asking the right questions early can help you avoid surprises and feel more confident in your decision. In competitive markets like Southern Maine, working with a local agent who understands pricing, inspections, and negotiation strategies can make a big difference for first-time buyers.
What are some questions you should ask when buying your first home?
Great question — and smart that you’re thinking this way early. Buying your first home is exciting, but asking the right questions can save you time, money, and stress.
Here are some important questions to ask your Realtor and about the home:
• How long has the home been on the market and have there been any price reductions?
• What comparable homes have recently sold nearby?
• What are the total monthly costs beyond the mortgage (taxes, insurance, HOA, utilities, maintenance)? Ask for a buyer consult, and if they don't know what that is, RUN!
• Are there any known repairs, defects, or upcoming major expenses (roof, foundation, systems)?
• How competitive is the current market and what strategies help buyers win?
• Are there resale factors or neighborhood trends that could impact future value?
• What contingencies should we consider to protect ourselves?
• How strong does our offer need to be in this specific situation?
Also ask about your agent’s schedule and availability.
If you want to see a home right away and they are already out with another client, who will be able to show it to you?
And ask how closely they follow local market trends, pricing shifts, and inventory levels — because that insight can make a big difference when writing a smart, competitive offer. Are they part time of full-time? If they are doing it part time, you get part time effort. You don't want that, nor can you afford that in this market!
A great Realtor should educate you, advocate for you, and help you avoid costly surprises — not just open doors.
Hope it goes well! :)