Pamela, first a terminology fix, because the title of your question and the body are describing two completely different things and it matters. A short sale means you owe more than the home is worth and the lender agrees to accept less than the full payoff. That one absolutely requires the mortgage company's approval, and it is slow. What you actually described, a buyer taking over the note, is not a short sale at all. That is either a formal assumption or an informal "subject to" arrangement, and they are very different from each other in ways that land on you personally. The thread above has covered the due-on-sale clause and the subject-to risk well, so I will not repeat that ground. Here is what I would do in your shoes, in order. Call your servicer this week and ask three specific questions, in these words. Is this loan assumable? If so, what is the assumption process, the fee, and the qualification standard for the new borrower? And critically: does an approved assumption include a release of liability for me? Get the answer in writing. The third question is the one people forget, and it is the one that decides whether you are actually free of this house or just no longer living in it. That third question is everything. There is a version of an assumption where the new buyer takes over payments and you remain legally liable on the note. If they stop paying, it is your credit, and in some situations your bank account, on the line. If you have a VA loan, there is an additional wrinkle worth asking about, which is whether your entitlement stays tied up in this property after the assumption. That can prevent you from using your VA benefit on the home you are relocating to, which is a serious problem when the whole point is moving. If the loan is assumable and they will release you, this can be a genuinely good deal. If your rate is meaningfully below current market, it is an asset worth real money to a buyer and you should price accordingly rather than treating the assumption as a favor. If the loan is not assumable, be careful. Sometimes the buyer will suggest just making payments without telling the lender. Understand what that is: your name stays on the loan, your credit carries the risk, the deed is out of your hands, and the lender can call the balance due at any time once they notice. That is not a shortcut, it is you financing a stranger's house purchase with unlimited downside and no control. The fact that it usually goes fine is not a reason to accept the version where it does not. If you do proceed with any owner-carry structure, do not do it on a handshake: Use a real estate attorney to draft it. This is not a form-fill situation. Use a licensed escrow or title company to close, so title is properly transferred and recorded. Use a third-party loan servicing company to collect the payments, so there is a payment record nobody can dispute later. Require proof of insurance naming you, and require it annually, not just at closing. Require written proof that property taxes were paid each year. Make sure the security instrument is recorded so you actually have a remedy if they stop paying. And here is the honest question underneath all of this, Pamela. You said you need to sell quickly. Have you actually tested what a straightforward sale looks like? Sellers often reach for creative structures because they assume a normal sale will be slow, and then it turns out a properly priced listing with a cash or fully underwritten buyer closes in a few weeks with none of this exposure. Before you take on years of contingent liability to a stranger, get a market analysis and find out what the plain version costs you in time. Sometimes the answer is two extra weeks, and two weeks is a cheap price for a clean break. I am a real estate professional, not an attorney or a lender. Anything involving assumption, subject-to, or seller financing should go past a real estate attorney in Tennessee before you sign, because the consequences here fall on you personally rather than on the property. Nashville is not my market, I am Zoltan Peresztegi, and I work Los Angeles and the South Bay. If you want a straight read on what a conventional sale would actually take, I am glad to connect you with a Middle Tennessee agent who can price it and tell you honestly. Zoltan


