Shannon, there is no law in any state that gives a seller a deadline to respond to your offer. The only clock that exists is the one you write into the offer yourself. The others covered the etiquette side well, so let me add the piece nobody here has touched: the contract language that actually controls this. In California, where I work, the C.A.R. Residential Purchase Agreement (the RPA) carries a built-in expiration. Unless you write a different deadline in, the offer is deemed revoked if the seller has not accepted it within 3 days after you sign. Missouri uses its own state forms, but nearly every purchase contract has some version of that clause. Ask your agent to show you the exact line before you sign anything. That means you control the clock, not the seller. In a competitive situation I shorten it on purpose, usually 24 to 48 hours. A tight deadline forces a decision instead of letting your offer sit as a stalking horse while the listing agent calls everyone who toured last weekend. Two things worth knowing. First, you can generally revoke your offer any time before you receive notice of acceptance, so if the seller goes quiet you are not trapped. Second, a counteroffer legally kills your original offer, and the counter comes with its own expiration, so the clock restarts every round. And silence is information. A seller who takes four days to answer a clean, well documented offer is either working another buyer or is not really ready to sell. Read it that way and price your patience accordingly. I am a real estate professional, not an attorney, so have your Missouri agent or a local attorney confirm how your state's form handles it. I am Zoltan Peresztegi, and I work in Los Angeles and the South Bay, including the Palos Verdes Peninsula, so Springfield is outside my area. If you want a name, I am glad to connect you with a strong agent in southwest Missouri from my network. Zoltan


