How do i get my part of the house sell?

This sounds like a conversation to be had with an attorney as there are too many variables for us to give you a clear answer. Did you have an agreement in writing? Did you have a dissolution agreement? Can you prove all the payments you made? These are all VERY important factors in determining your eligibility. Best of luck with your situation. Keith Jean-Pierre Managing Principal The Dapper Agents Operations In: NY, NJ, FL & CA

If your name's not on the title, legally he's right that you don't automatically get anything from the sale. But that doesn't mean you're out of luck. You might have a claim for the money you put in, but you'd need to prove it (bank statements, Venmo records, texts about splitting costs) and probably take him to small claims court or get a lawyer involved. This is called an "unjust enrichment" claim. It's messy and not guaranteed, but it's your best shot. Document everything you paid and talk to a lawyer ASAP before he sells.

Short answer: Not being on the deed does NOT automatically mean you have no rights or no claim. But what you’re entitled to depends on how the home was purchased, how the payments were made, and what agreements (written or verbal) existed between you and your boyfriend. Let’s break it down. 1. If your name is NOT on the deed Legally, the property belongs to the person whose name is recorded on the title. That means you don’t automatically get a share of the sale. BUT — and this is important — that does not mean you have zero claim. You may still have a financial interest if you can show: - You contributed to the mortgage - You paid toward property taxes or insurance - You paid for repairs or improvements - You and your boyfriend had an agreement (even verbal) to share ownership or equity Courts recognize something called “equitable interest” — meaning you invested in the property and should be compensated. 2. Mortgage payments matter Even if you weren’t on the deed, the fact that you: - Paid the mortgage - Split payments - Took turns paying - Had a roommate contributing …means you contributed to the equity of the home. Equity = value of the home minus what’s owed. If you helped build that equity, you may have a claim to part of it. 3. You may be entitled to reimbursement Even if you can’t claim ownership, you may be able to claim: - Reimbursement for the mortgage payments you made - Reimbursement for improvements you paid for - Reimbursement for repairs or upgrades - A share of the equity if you can show there was an agreement to share the home This is often handled through: - A partition action (if you were on the deed — not your case) - A civil claim for contribution - A claim for unjust enrichment - A cohabitation property dispute You do NOT need to “sue” immediately — sometimes a simple attorney letter is enough to force a fair settlement. 4. What your boyfriend said (“you get nothing”) is not automatically true People often assume: “If your name isn’t on the house, you have no rights.” That’s not how property law works in most states — especially when someone contributed financially for years. You have leverage, and you have options. 5. What you should do next Here’s the cleanest path forward: Step 1 — Gather proof of your contributions Examples: - Bank statements showing mortgage payments - Zelle/Venmo transfers - Receipts for repairs or improvements - Texts or messages discussing shared payments or ownership Step 2 — Talk to a real estate attorney A quick consultation (often $100–$200) can tell you exactly what you’re entitled to in your state. Step 3 — Have the attorney send a letter This is often enough to get your ex to agree to: - A fair split of the equity - Reimbursement for your contributions - A settlement before the sale Step 4 — Do NOT walk away without exploring your rights You invested money. You helped pay down the mortgage. You helped build equity. You deserve to be compensated. Bottom Line Your name not being on the deed does NOT automatically mean you walk away with nothing. If you contributed financially — and you did — you may have a legal right to reimbursement or a share of the equity. You just need to document your contributions and speak with a real estate attorney who can help you claim what’s fair.

In my opinion, if your name is not on the deed or mortgage, you may not automatically get sale proceeds, but that does not always mean you get nothing. In some states, you can still claim reimbursement if you helped pay the mortgage, repairs, or improvements. Gather bank records, texts, and receipts, and talk to a local real estate or family law attorney right away.