The deed and the mortgage answer two different questions, and your situation is a common one: being on the deed means you own an interest in the property; not being on the mortgage means you have no personal liability for that loan. Useful to know - but it also means you can't sell the house by yourself, because you don't own all of it. Four realistic paths, roughly in order of how well they usually work: 1. Sell your interest to her - a buyout. Cleanest by far. She pays you for your share and you sign a deed transferring your interest. The catch is the mortgage: the lien stays attached to the property regardless of who's on the deed, and her lender didn't agree to anything. If she wants the loan clear of any connection to the transfer, she generally has to refinance in her own name. Signing a deed over without settling the money and the loan first is how people end up with nothing. 2. Agree to sell the whole house and split the proceeds. The mortgage gets paid at closing out of the sale, and what's left is divided according to how the deed is titled and whatever the two of you agree. This is often the practical answer when neither of you can buy the other out. 3. Sell your fractional interest to a third party. Legal in most states, nearly useless in practice. Almost nobody buys a partial interest in a house someone else lives in, and the few who do pay very little. Mentioned so you know it exists, not because I'd recommend it. 4. A partition action - asking a court to force a sale or division when co-owners can't agree. It works, and it's a last resort: it costs money, it takes time, and a court-ordered sale rarely brings what a normal sale would. Before you do any of it, get three documents. A copy of the recorded deed, a current payoff statement on the mortgage, and an honest opinion of the home's value. The deed matters most - how title is held, whether as joint tenants with survivorship or tenants in common, and in what shares, determines what your interest actually is. That's a lawyer reading the document, not a guess from anyone online, including me. With those three in hand, sit down with a real estate attorney in your county and ask specifically about a buyout agreement: what it should say about the refinance, the timing, and what happens if she can't qualify. An hour of that is cheap compared to signing the wrong thing. Two cautions. Don't sign a quitclaim deed in exchange for a promise - money and deed change hands at the same time, at a closing, with a professional handling it. And if there are any family court orders that touch the house, those control, and that's a family law question rather than a real estate one. I'm a real estate broker, not an attorney, and I'm licensed in Alabama rather than South Carolina, where co-ownership and partition rules differ. Get local counsel on this one - it's genuinely a legal question. Dustin Woodley, Camelot Properties, LLC - serving Montgomery, Prattville, Millbrook, Wetumpka, Pike Road, Auburn, Opelika, Lake Martin and the Tri County River Region area.


