236 answers · 1,188 pts
Asked by Preston W. | Eugene, OR | 08-06-2026
Preston, you don’t need to make the house look show-ready. For an early walkthrough, focus on keeping it clean, organized, and accessible. Stack boxes neatly, clear walkways, remove packing debris, and make sure the buyer can see agreed repairs and key areas of the home. Because your walkthrough is four days before closing and you have delayed possession, ask your agent to confirm whether this is truly the final walkthrough or whether the buyer will inspect again after you move out. As for tomorrow: tidy, safe and accessible beats pretty. Don’t unpack your house just to make it look like the listing photos again. You’re moving, and boxes are what moving looks like.
Asked by Anna | Delray Beach, FL | 08-06-2026
Anna, the agent is right that a written buyer agreement is generally required before a private showing, but the rule does not require a 12-month exclusive agreement, three counties, or a 3% fee. Those are negotiable terms. Florida Realtors has shorter options, including pre-touring and property-specific showing agreements, so those are real, not just something people say online. I’d be cautious about signing a year-long exclusive at the first meeting, especially when the agent brushed past the issue of cancellation. Also make sure you understand the 3% clause: on a $650k purchase, that could mean up to $19,500 if the agreement makes you responsible for compensation the seller doesn’t cover. Ask for a short-term or property-specific agreement and clear written cancellation terms. If the agent won’t offer that, you can interview another brokerage.
Asked by Sondra | Fremont, MI | 08-05-2026
Sondra, after 10 months on the market, it’s probably time to make a change. Even if the marketing has been strong and the price seems reasonable, the market may be signaling that the home needs different positioning. A specialty home can absolutely take longer to find the right buyer, but ten months suggests something in the positioning, pricing, or buyer pool needs to change. Because it’s a specialty home, ask your agent to review recent sold comparables, buyer feedback, and whether the property is reaching the right audience. You might also consider refreshed marketing, new photos, or a price adjustment. Ask your agent for a fresh comparative market analysis focused on homes that have actually sold, not just competing listings. Also review every showing from the past several months: Are buyers consistently mentioning price, layout, location, maintenance, or another objection? Patterns in that feedback are important. If you need to sell soon, pricing more aggressively may be the best move. If you can wait, a more targeted approach may help you find the right buyer.
Asked by mark | Broken Arrow, OK | 08-05-2026
Mark, your neighbor probably had the right to trim branches that actually extended onto their side of the property line, but that right has limits. Oklahoma law recognizes a property owner's right to deal with tree branches or roots that encroach onto their property. The Oklahoma Supreme Court has specifically recognized that offending branches or roots may be cut back at the boundary line, and advance notice generally is not required when the work can be done from the neighbor's own property. If your neighbor simply cut the overhanging portions back to the property line, the fact that they did not ask you first probably does not, by itself, make the trimming unlawful. But if they cut branches past the property line, entered your property without permission, or pruned the tree so severely that they unnecessarily injured, destabilized, or killed it, you could have a substantially different situation. Because you describe the trimming as taking a "big slice" out of a mature tree, I would take photographs immediately and have an ISA-certified arborist examine it. Ask the arborist to document whether the cuts were proper pruning, whether any cuts appear to have been made on your side of the property line, and whether the pruning has materially damaged or endangered the tree. If the damage is significant, it would also be worthwhile to confirm the exact boundary with a survey and speak with an Oklahoma real-estate/property attorney before confronting the neighbor or agreeing to anything. The bottom line: your neighbor could generally trim branches extending into their yard, but that does not give them an unlimited right to damage your tree. Whether what happened here crossed that line will depend heavily on where the cuts were made and what effect they had on the tree.
Asked by Bethany R. | Providence, RI | 08-05-2026
Bethany, it can be worth doing, but usually not because every dollar spent comes back as a higher sale price. Removing dated or damaged wallpaper and repainting in neutral colors is more likely to help the home show better, attract more buyers, and reduce the chance that buyers mentally deduct an exaggerated amount for the work. I would wait for your agent’s opinion before approving the full quote. Ask which rooms are most likely to hurt the listing photos or create objections during showings. You may not need to repaint everything. Prioritize peeling, heavily patterned, dark, or visibly worn areas, and leave rooms that already look clean and presentable alone. Also ask your agent to compare your home with recent nearby sales in similar condition. In a strong seller’s market, buyers may overlook cosmetic work. In a more competitive price range, a cleaner, move-in-ready appearance can make a meaningful difference. So, no, I would not automatically spend the money on the entire project. Get your agent’s room-by-room recommendation, focus on the most noticeable problem areas, and make the decision based on marketability rather than expecting a dollar-for-dollar return.
Asked by Corey L. | Charleston, SC | 08-05-2026
Corey, yes, many lenders can give you a useful estimate of your buying power with a soft credit pull or based on your stated income, debts, assets, and current housing payment. It will not be as precise as a full preapproval, but they can usually model your likely loan amount, monthly payment, cash needed, and whether carrying both homes would fit your debt-to-income ratio. Ask them to run a buy-before-you-sell scenario and confirm upfront that you do not authorize a hard credit pull. That should give you enough information to decide whether the plan is realistic before you start touring homes.
Asked by Grant W. | Bend, OR | 08-04-2026
Grant, you are not wrong for asking, but the sellers are not necessarily wrong for saying no. A “right to inspect, no repairs” clause generally means you retain the right to investigate the property’s condition but agree not to require the sellers to make repairs or provide credits. You can still propose a credit or amendment, but the sellers may treat it as a voluntary renegotiation rather than something they are contractually obligated to accept. Your actual leverage depends on the precise wording of your agreement. If you still have the right to terminate based on the inspection findings and are within the applicable deadline, your leverage is your willingness to walk away, not the ability to force the sellers to provide the full $10,000. If you waived both repair negotiations and the right to terminate, your leverage may be very limited. Have your agent’s principal broker or an Oregon real estate attorney review the exact clause before any deadline expires.
Asked by Blair G | Rancho Cucamonga, CA | 08-04-2026
Hi Blair, I’m sorry your family has had to deal with this for so long. You may be able to sell the property in its current fire-damaged condition, even while the insurance claim is pending, but the transaction needs to be structured carefully. Your primary options are: 1 . Sell as-is to a cash buyer or investor. This is often the fastest option because the buyer is purchasing the property based on its current condition, land value, repair costs, and redevelopment potential. The tradeoff is that the offer will usually be lower than the value of a repaired home. 2. List the property publicly as a fire-damaged fixer. This can expose the property to more buyers and potentially generate a better price, but financing options may be limited because the home is uninhabitable. The damage, insurance claim, permits, inspections, and any known environmental concerns would need to be fully disclosed. 3. Wait for the insurance claim to be resolved before selling. Depending on the policy and whether there is a mortgage, the lender may have rights to some or all of the insurance proceeds. Resolving the claim first may make the property easier to value and could place you in a stronger negotiating position. 4. Complete limited repairs or cleanup before selling. Securing the property, removing debris, obtaining plans or estimates, and addressing safety issues may increase buyer confidence without requiring a complete rebuild. Before accepting an offer, I would recommend confirming the outstanding mortgage balance, reviewing how a sale could affect the insurance claim, checking for liens or open permits, and obtaining both a current-condition valuation and repair estimate. You should also speak with your insurance representative and, if necessary, an attorney before transferring the property or signing over any claim rights. The next step would be to evaluate the property, review the available insurance and repair documentation, and compare the estimated net proceeds from an immediate as-is sale with those from waiting for the claim to be completed. This will help determine which option provides the best path toward purchasing your next home.
Asked by Derek P. | Bozeman, MT | 08-03-2026
Derek, nine days of silence after repeated texts, especially after a previous no-show—is more than enough reason to move on. A responsive agent should at least acknowledge you within a business day or two, even if they can’t schedule showings immediately. Send one final message saying you need reliable communication and, unless you hear back promptly, you’ll be finding another agent. Make sure you include the agent and their broker in the communication. Before hiring someone new, check whether you signed a buyer-agency agreement and what it requires to terminate it. Otherwise, you’ve been patient enough. Brenda Ashby | REALTOR® | DRE License # 01700249 JohnHart Real Estate
Asked by Miguel | Spokane, WA | 08-03-2026
Miguel, it may be legal to omit a home-sale contingency, but a financing contingency is not automatically a substitute. Washington financing provisions generally require a good-faith loan effort and lender documentation showing why financing failed—potentially including proof that you had sufficient funds to close. If your funds depend on selling your current home, you could risk your earnest money or be considered in breach if that sale does not happen. The strategy is not necessarily shady, but it shifts significant risk to you to make the offer more competitive. Before agreeing, get written clarification from your lender and have a Washington real-estate attorney review the exact contract language.
Asked by Noel | Jersey City, NJ | 08-01-2026
Noel, when you cannot win on price alone, make your offer more attractive through certainty and flexibility. You can offer the seller their preferred closing date, shorten inspection and financing timelines, avoid requesting minor repairs, or agree to purchase the home as-is while keeping the right to inspect. A seller leaseback may also help if the seller needs extra time to move. The agreement should clearly state the move-out date, occupancy fee, security deposit, utilities, insurance, and penalties for staying beyond the deadline. You may also strengthen your offer with a fully underwritten preapproval or offer limited appraisal-gap coverage if your finances allow. The goal is not to waive every protection, but to present a clean, dependable offer that fits the seller’s timeline. Because New Jersey contracts generally include attorney review, discuss any contingency changes or leaseback terms with your attorney.
Asked by Andrew F | League City, TX | 08-01-2026
Andrew, before accepting a cash offer, you should require current and verifiable proof that the buyer has enough liquid funds to cover the purchase price and closing costs. Acceptable documentation may include: • A recent bank or brokerage statement • A signed proof-of-funds letter from a recognized financial institution • Written confirmation from a title or escrow company that it has verified the funds The document should be dated within the past 30 days, identify the buyer or purchasing entity, and show an available balance sufficient to complete the transaction. The buyer should redact sensitive account information, but the name, institution, statement date, and available balance should remain visible. Also require a signed contract, a meaningful earnest-money deposit, and a firm closing date before taking your home off the market. Until the funds are independently verified, do not assume the investor is qualified or capable of closing. Have your Texas real estate agent, attorney, or title company independently verify the documentation rather than contacting a bank through a telephone number supplied only by the buyer. Until the investor provides satisfactory and verifiable proof of funds, I would not accept the offer or remove the property from the market.
Asked by Kai U | Denver, CO | 08-01-2026
Kai, yes, you should generally disclose the pending HOA litigation in writing rather than rely on a title search. Because the dispute involves structural issues, possible repairs, special assessments, and financing concerns, it could be considered a material fact affecting a buyer’s decision. The lawsuit may not appear in a standard title report unless a lien or similar document has been recorded. Buyers and lenders are more likely to learn about it through the seller disclosures, HOA documents, meeting minutes, and condominium questionnaire. Fannie Mae currently considers a condominium project ineligible when the HOA is involved in pending litigation related to the project's safety, structural soundness, habitability, or functional use. Freddie Mac and FHA lenders also examine project-level litigation and physical-condition concerns during their condominium reviews. This does not necessarily eliminate every financing option, but it may reduce the number of eligible lenders and buyers. Before listing, ask the HOA or management company for the complaint, current case status, engineering reports, repair plans, insurance information, estimated legal exposure, and information about any proposed special assessment. Give those materials to your listing agent and consult a Colorado real estate attorney regarding the wording and timing of the disclosure. Avoid making predictions about the lawsuit; disclose the known facts and provide the supporting, nonprivileged documents.
Asked by Marilyn S Jones | Fort Smith, AR | 07-31-2026
Marilyn, house flippers can be legitimate buyers, but their offers should be evaluated carefully. Most flippers purchase homes below market value because they must account for repairs, carrying costs, resale expenses, and profit. Before accepting an offer, request proof of funds, confirm the earnest-money deposit, review the inspection and cancellation terms, and use a reputable title or closing company. Avoid anyone who pressures you to sign quickly or asks you to transfer money upfront. It is also wise to compare the investor’s offer with your home’s potential value if it were listed on the open market. A qualified local real estate professional can help you review the offer and determine whether the convenience of a quick sale outweighs the lower purchase price.
Asked by Miguel | Fort Lauderdale, FL | 07-30-2026
Miguel, your concern is justified. With a $1.1 million pre-construction purchase and $330,000 due before closing, you should understand that **not all three deposits will necessarily receive the same protection**. Under Florida law, the first 10% of the purchase price, approximately $110,000 in your case, generally must be held by an independent escrow agent or protected through another legally approved assurance, such as a qualifying surety bond or irrevocable letter of credit. The additional $220,000 is different. Florida law allows a developer to withdraw deposits exceeding 10% after construction has begun when the purchase contract authorizes it. Those funds may be used for actual costs associated with constructing and developing the condominium, including certain permitting, architectural, engineering, site-clearing and utility-related expenses. They cannot legally be used for sales commissions, advertising, marketing, loan payments, attorneys’ fees, accounting fees or insurance costs. That bold language in your contract is therefore important. It is a statutorily required warning that payments exceeding 10% may be used for construction. Once that money has been properly withdrawn and spent, it is no longer sitting untouched in escrow waiting to be returned. If the project stalls, your protection will depend heavily on the contract. You may have a legal right to cancel and receive a refund if the developer misses a contractual completion deadline, fails to satisfy a condition, or violates Florida law. However, a contractual right to a refund and the practical ability to collect the money are not always the same thing. If the excess deposits have already been spent and the project entity becomes insolvent or files for bankruptcy, recovery may depend on available assets, insurance, bonds, guarantees and the priority of competing creditors. Before signing, I would have an independent Florida condominium or real estate attorney review at least the following: 1. The escrow agreement. Confirm the name and independence of the escrow agent, where each portion of the deposit will be held, and precisely when the excess deposits can be released. 2. The completion deadline. Look for the outside completion date, the developer’s cancellation rights and any provisions allowing extensions for financing problems, labor shortages, governmental delays, weather or broadly defined force-majeure events. 3. Your refund rights. Determine exactly what happens if construction never begins, stops for an extended period, misses the outside date, or materially differs from the plans. 4. The developer entity. Investigate the specific LLC signing your contract, not merely the recognizable brand name. Review its completed projects, delayed or canceled developments, litigation, bankruptcies, liens, and whether a financially substantial parent company guarantees its obligations. 5. The project’s financial readiness. Ask about land ownership, permits, construction financing, the general contractor, lender commitments, and whether financing depends on reaching a certain level of presales. 6. Additional deposit protection. Your attorney can determine whether it is realistic to request that the full deposit remain in escrow, that released funds be backed by a bond or letter of credit, or that a parent company provides a completion or repayment guarantee. Florida developers must provide purchasers with prescribed condominium documents, and buyers generally have a 15-day statutory period to cancel after signing and receiving all required documents. Any purported waiver of that statutory cancellation right is ineffective. Do not treat that period as merely extra reading time. Use it for a full legal review of the contract, prospectus, proposed declaration, budget, escrow agreement, plans and all exhibits. For a $330,000 pre-closing commitment, extensive due diligence is not excessive; it is proportionate. The Florida Bar specifically recommends consulting an experienced Florida real estate attorney before signing a purchase contract. My bottom line: the first $110,000 should receive substantial statutory protection, but the remaining $220,000 may become construction capital and could be exposed if the development fails. I would not sign until a lawyer who represents only you has explained the refund provisions, extension clauses, escrow-release process, and the financial strength of the entity responsible for returning your money.
Asked by Cassie | Boynton Beach, FL | 07-30-2026
Cassie, yes, budgeting about 7.5% of the sale price is a reasonable estimate for selling a home in South Florida. On a $625,000 sale, 7.5% would be $46,875, leaving approximately $578,125 before your mortgage payoff, so your calculation is correct That estimate may include commissions, documentary stamp taxes, title insurance, closing fees, prorated taxes or HOA dues, and any repair credits or buyer concessions. Buyer-agent compensation is negotiable, but many sellers still offer it because some buyers cannot afford to pay their agent separately. You can also wait to see what each buyer requests in their offer. In Palm Beach County, the seller traditionally pays for the owner’s title insurance policy, while in Broward County the buyer often pays. However, this is a local custom, not a rule, and the purchase contract determines who pays. Before signing a listing agreement, ask the agent for a detailed seller net sheet based on a $625,000 sale price. es, budgeting about 7.5% of the sale price is a reasonable estimate for selling a home in South Florida. On a $625,000 sale, that would leave about $578,125 before your mortgage payoff. That estimate may include commissions, documentary stamp taxes, title insurance, closing fees, prorated taxes or HOA dues, and any repair credits or buyer concessions. Buyer-agent compensation is negotiable, but many sellers still offer it because some buyers cannot afford to pay their agent separately. You can also wait to see what each buyer requests in their offer. In Palm Beach County, the seller traditionally pays for the owner’s title insurance policy, while in Broward County the buyer often pays. However, this is a local custom—not a rule—and the purchase contract determines who pays. Before signing a listing agreement, ask the agent for a detailed seller net sheet based on a $625,000 sale.
Asked by Stella K | Ellicott City, MD | 07-29-2026
Hi Stella, in Maryland, a seller generally is not required to respond to a purchase offer within a specific number of hours or days. However, most sellers respond within 24 to 72 hours, depending on the circumstances, the strength of the offer, and whether they are reviewing multiple offers. Is the acceptance deadline written into your offer? For example, your offer may state that it expires at 6:00 PM the following day. If the seller does not accept and properly communicate that acceptance before the deadline, the offer will expire unless you agree to extend or resubmit it. The seller may also accept your offer, reject it, make a counteroffer, or choose not to respond at all. If the seller counters, the original offer is no longer being accepted as written, and you can accept, reject, or counter the seller's proposed terms. Ask your agent to confirm the exact expiration date and time in your contract and follow up with the listing agent. Waiting can be stressful, but a delayed response does not necessarily mean the seller is rejecting your offer, they may simply need time to review their options.
Asked by Olga | Parma, OH | 07-29-2026
Hi Olga, visit the neighborhood at different times of day and on weekends to get a feel for traffic, noise, parking, and activity. Explore nearby shops and parks by walking the neighborhood at various times of day and on weekends. Check commuting routes, and speak with residents about what they like or dislike, and how long they've lived in the area. You can also review local news, city resources, crime data, and future development plans. Most importantly, consider whether the neighborhood fits your daily routine and long-term lifestyle before making an offer. If you have children, plan to visit the nearby schools during normal hours once you check with the principal or staff. Brenda Ashby JohnHart Real Estate
Asked by Cal N | Bellevue, WA | 07-27-2026
Cal, your concern is valid. Waiving an inspection may make your offer more competitive, but it also removes an important protection, especially for a first-time buyer. An inspection can reveal costly issues involving the roof, foundation, plumbing, electrical system, or water damage. A seller disclosure is helpful, but it does not replace an independent inspection. Before waiving it completely, ask your agent about safer options, such as a pre-inspection, a shorter inspection period, or limiting repair requests to major problems only. Waiving an inspection may make sense if you have already completed a pre-inspection, fully understand the home’s condition, and have enough savings to handle unexpected repairs. Otherwise, I would not take the risk just to compete. Missing out on one house may be disappointing, but buying a home with major hidden problems can be far more costly. This is a hard NO!
Asked by Angela | Dayton, OH | 07-26-2026
Angela, in a traditional sale, the earnest money amount is negotiated in the purchase agreement and may be refundable if the buyer cancels under an approved contingency, such as inspection or financing. In an online real estate auction, the deposit amount and deadline are usually set in advance. The winning bidder may need to pay immediately or within 24 hours. Auction deposits are often nonrefundable, and properties are commonly sold "as-is" without financing, appraisal, or inspection contingencies. Before bidding, review the auction terms carefully, including the deposit amount, refund policy, buyer's premium, payment deadline, and closing requirements.
Asked by Olga | Sunny Isles Beach, FL | 07-26-2026
Olga, yes, you may be able to choose the title company, but the purchase contract, not simply the seller's or agent's preference, determines who has the right to select the closing agents. Because Sunny Isles Beach is in Miami-Dade County, the standard Florida Realtors/Florida Bar contract contains a Miami-Dade/Broward provision under which the buyer designates the closing agent and generally pays the premiums for the owner’s and lender’s title policies. However, that provision must be selected in your contract. Ask your agent to show you which option is checked under the title section, usually Paragraph 9(c). The seller’s agent can certainly recommend a title company they know and trust, but that recommendation does not automatically give the seller the final decision. Florida’s Department of Financial Services explains that the person paying the title-insurance premium generally receives the first choice of the closing or title agent, subject to the contract and the lender’s approval. You are also permitted to ask other title companies for written estimates. Compare the total, including the closing or settlement fee, title search, municipal lien search, lender endorsements, wire fees, and title insurance premiums. Shopping around may save money, particularly because closing-service fees can vary between Florida title companies. The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau recommends comparing title and closing providers rather than assuming an agent’s preferred company offers the lowest price. The title and escrow functions are related but different: The title company researches ownership records, identifies liens or title defects, prepares the title commitment and issues the owner’s and lender’s title-insurance policies. The escrow agent holds the deposit and closing funds in a trust account, follows the written contract instructions and releases the money only when the closing requirements have been satisfied. In Florida, the same title company commonly performs both functions. Florida law permits licensed title agencies to act as escrow agents and requires them to hold escrow money as fiduciary trust funds until properly authorized for disbursement. Before agreeing to the seller's preferred company, review the title provision in your contract and obtain at least two written estimates so you can compare both cost and service.
Asked by Debra Fidel | 43351 | 07-25-2026
Debra, yes, you may be able to take the shed when you sell your house, but it depends on how it is installed. If the shed is permanently attached to the ground, connected to utilities, or considered part of the property, the buyer may expect it to remain. The safest approach is to let your agent know before listing the home and clearly exclude the shed from the sale in the listing and purchase agreement. It should also be removed before closing, and any damage to the yard should be repaired. If the shed is included in the marketing photos or advertised as part of the property, it is especially important to disclose that it will not stay.
Asked by Alparslan | Somerville, MA | 07-24-2026
Alparslan, the question you should be asking is: Will this brokerage provide the marketing, accessibility, communication, compensation strategy, and transaction management necessary to compete effectively with other listings? If your listing does not offer or agree to contribute toward buyer-agent compensation, some buyers may face an additional out-of-pocket expense. A buyer who does not have enough available cash, or who does not want to assume that additional cost, may decide to pass on your property or focus on homes where compensation assistance is available. The MLS does not require sellers to offer compensation, but a buyer's broker may request compensation from the seller rather than collecting the entire amount from the buyer.
Asked by Brenton M | Osage, IA | 07-24-2026
Brenton, before purchasing the 40-acre parcel, obtain a review of the complete agricultural lease, including amendments, renewal provisions, and any side agreements with an Iowa attorney experienced in agricultural real estate. Do not assume the lease ends when the property is sold. A farm lease gives the tenant the contractual right to use and occupy the land, and Iowa law recognizes that a successor property owner may inherit obligations under an existing farm tenancy. You should expect to become the new landlord unless the lease is terminated, amended, or bought out before closing. Pay particular attention to: the exact lease term and expiration date; automatic-renewal provisions; the amount and timing of rent; the acreage included in the lease; the tenant's crop and harvest rights; restrictions on pesticides, fertilizers, and land use; the owner's inspetion and access rights, whether the lease allows assignment or early termination; and whether any lease memorandum is recorded against the property. Iowa’s farm-tenancy rules can be especially important. Farm leases may automatically renew for another crop year unless the required written termination notice is properly served by September 1, generally establishing a March 1 termination date. These rules can apply to both one-year and multi-year farm leases, so the stated expiration date should not be accepted at face value without legal review. Your access during the growing season will largely depend on the lease. Unless the lease reserves specific rights for the owner, the tenant may control the leased acreage for farming purposes. You might be able to inspect the property after providing notice. Still, you should not assume that you can begin gardening, drive across planted fields, or interfere with planting and harvesting. Any access arrangement should be documented in writing. Because you eventually want your own organic garden, consider negotiating before closing to: 1) Exclude a designated portion of the property from the lease; 2) Amend the lease to give you access to a specific garden area; 3) Establish limits on chemical applications near the area; 4) Set a definite possession date after the tenant's final harvest; and 5) Negotiate an early termination or lease buyout, if acceptable to the tenant. Request several years of fertilizer, herbicide, and pesticide application records. Land used to grow crops marketed as USDA organic generally must have had no prohibited substances applied for 36 months before the organic crop is harvested. Even if you are gardening only for personal use, the application history will help you understand the soil and determine whether a transition period is necessary. Lastly, make your purchase offer contingent on a satisfactory review of the lease, title records, tenant payment history, government-program enrollment, drainage, conservation obligations, and chemical application records. A conversation with the neighboring farmer can also be valuable. The main point is to purchase based on the possession rights you will actually receive, not simply the acreage shown in the listing.
Asked by Ralph G | Dorr, MI | 07-23-2026
Ralph, I understand that buying a home with heating oil and well water can feel intimidating when you have never dealt with either, but they are common in rural areas and can be manageable with the right inspections. Before making a decision, I would recommend having the oil tank, heating system, and well professionally inspected. Ask about the oil tank's age, condition, maintenance history, and whether there have ever been leaks. Outdoor tanks should be checked for rust, corrosion, unstable supports, and damage to the fuel lines. You should also find out how much oil the current owners typically use each winter and the approximate annual cost. For the well, have the water professionally tested for bacteria, nitrates, minerals, iron, hardness, and other contaminants commonly found in the area. A well contractor can also test the water pressure, flow rate, pump, pressure tank, and the well's overall condition. Ask how deep the well is, when it was installed, and whether the owners have had any problems with water supply or quality. Also confirm whether the property has a septic system. If it does, have that inspected and pumped before closing. These systems should not automatically discourage you from buying a home you love, especially if the property offers the land and space you want. Just make your offer contingent on satisfactory inspections and obtain estimates for any recommended repairs. That will help you understand the true costs and avoid unpleasant surprises after you move in.
Asked by Lacey G | North Myrtle Beach, SC | 07-23-2026
Lacey, when a revocable living trust owns property, the listing agreement is generally signed by the current trustee or trustees named in the trust, rather than by the beneficiaries. In South Carolina, a trustee is authorized to sell trust property and sign contracts or other documents needed to carry out the trustee’s duties. When there are co-trustees, the trust document should be reviewed to determine whether all trustees must sign or whether one trustee has authority to act independently. If a successor trustee is acting because the original trustee has died or become incapacitated, documentation confirming that successor’s authority will usually be required. Before signing the listing agreement, the agent should review the property deed and obtain a certification or relevant portions of the trust. A South Carolina real estate attorney or closing attorney should confirm the correct signature format and who has authority to sign.
Asked by Jean | Denver, CO | 07-22-2026
Jean, when an inspection identifies moderate plumbing and electrical issues, requests that a closing cost credit is ofter preferable to having the seller complete the repairs. A credit gives you control over which licensed contractors are hired, the quality of the work, and when the repairs are completed. Before deciding, obtain estimates from qualified plumbing and electrical contractors. Those estimates will help you request a realistic credit. Keep in mind that the lender and appraisal may limit which repairs can remain unfinished at closing, and the amount of a seller credit may also be restricted by your loan program. Ask the seller to repair any urgent safety, code, insurance, or lender-required items before closing, while requesting a closing cost credit for the remaining moderate repairs. This should keep the transaction moving while still allowing you to control the contractors and workmanship ater you take ownership.
Asked by Josue | Tuscola, TX | 07-22-2026
Jouse, yes, you can still negotiate the price of a home even when it is being sold “as-is.” An as-is sale generally means the seller is offering the property in its present condition and does not intend to make repairs. It does not prevent you from submitting a lower offer, requesting a price reduction, asking for an allowable closing-cost credit, or renegotiating after an inspection. The seller can accept, reject, or counter your request. You should review the seller's disclosure notice carefully. Texas requires a disclosure notice for previously occupied single-family residences, subject to certain legal exemptions, and the form addresses material facts and the property's physical condition. An "as-is" designation does not automatically eliminate applicable disclosure obligations. However, the fact that a problem was omitted from the listing description does not necessarily prove that the seller knew about it or failed to disclose it improperly. As-is means proceed carefully, not that you must accept the asking price without negotiation.
Asked by mateo | Carmel, IN | 07-21-2026
Mateo, it is completely reasonable to expect regular communication from your real estate agent once your home is on the market. A good listing agent will provide a detailed update at least once a week. That update should include the number of showings, available buyer and agent feedback, online activity, market competition, and any recommended adjustments to pricing or marketing strategy. And they will set the tone for communication during the listing presentation. Before the property goes on the market, the agent and seller should discuss how often updates will be provided and how the seller prefers to be contacted, whether by email, text message, telephone, or a scheduled weekly call. Feedback from individual showings should be shared within 24 hours. However, not every buyer or buyer's agent responds to feedback requests, so your agent may not always have detailed comments to provide. Since your home has been listed for two weeks, it would not be overbearing to contact your agent and request a consistent communication schedule. You may want to ask for weekly updates on a specific day, along with prompt communication whenever there is an offer, significant buyer interest, or an issue requiring your attention. Establishing those boundaries early helps you stay informed without feeling the need to check in throughout the work week.
Asked by Ram | Issaquah, WA | 07-21-2026
Ram, the key question is whether the extra space is worth the time and energy of a long daily commute. An hour each way can add up to 10 or more hours per week in traffic. A condo near work may mean less space and HOA fees, but it offers convenience and more free time. A larger home farther out may provide a yard, privacy, and room to grow, but also comes with commuting costs and more maintenance. Before deciding, test the commute during your actual work hours and calculate the cost of gas, parking, tolls, and vehicle wear. Many buyers also look for a middle-ground location near light rail or an express bus. Ultimately, choose the home that best supports your everyday quality of life, not just the one with the most square footage.
Asked by marc t | Lincoln, NE | 07-20-2026
Marc, your hesitation is completely understandable. This is not an easy decision to purchase a condo; it's also a decision about a home filled with memories of your grandfather and your childhood. However, the emotional importance of the property should be one factor, but not the only factor. Before deciding whether to buy the home or let it go, find out whether purchasing it is financially realistic. A lender will evaluate your current income, credit, employment history, monthly debts, available down payment, and the expected housing payment. Your future nursing income should not be the basis of the decision unless it can actually be documented and accepted by the lender. The estimated payment must include more than the mortgage. For a Ventura County condo, you should calculate: principal and interest; property taxes; homeowners insurance; monthly HOA dues; possible HOA special assessments; and maintenance and utilities. You will also need closing costs and emergency reserves. There are financing options worth exploring. FHA financing may allow a down payment as low as 3.5%, although the condo and condominium association must meet the lender's eligibility requirements and mortgage insurance will increase the monthly payment. Because this is a family property, also ask the lender and estate representative about a possible gift of equity. If the heirs are willing to sell the condo to you below its appraised market value, some of the difference may potentially help satisfy your required investment. Any family gift, discounted sale, seller financing, or co-borrower arrangement must be properly documented and approved by the lender. You should also investigate current California and Ventura County down-payment-assistance programs; HUD confirms that state and local governments may offer homebuyer assistance, although availability and funding can change. Other family arrangements may include temporarily renting the condo from the estate, negotiating a lease with an option to purchase, receiving a right of first refusal, or asking whether the family can delay the sale while you complete part of nursing school. These arrangements should be written by an attorney rather than handled through an informal family agreement. If you can comfortably make the payment from your current income, continue paying for school, and retian emergency saving, buying your grandfather's home may be realistic. My recommendation is not to let the house go until you have completed two steps: obtain the proposed family purchase price and get fully pre-approved by a reputable lender familiar with California condos and family transactions. Then compare the complete monthly ownership cost with renting.
Asked by Lacey G | Providence, RI | 07-20-2026
Lacey, your agent is right: price gets you noticed, but in a market where homes draw several bids over a weekend, it's the terms that usually win. Sellers usually consider the overall strength of an offer, not just the purchase price, including certainty, convenience, financing, contingencies, and the likelihood that the transaction will close on time. Here are several ways you may be able to strengthen your offer without taking on too much risk: ask your lender whether your financial documents can be reviewed by an underwriter before you submit the offer; increase your earnest-money deposit (a larger deposit can show the seller that you are serious about completing the purchase); accommodate the seller's preferred timeline (your agent should ask the listing agent what maters most to the seller - flexible closing date, additonal time to move); shorten rather than eliminate the inspeciton period (limit repair requests tomajor structural, safety, plumbing, electrical, roofing, or mechanical problems); consider a controlled escalation clause (automatically increase your ofer above a competing offer by a predetemined amount, up to your maximum price point).
Asked by Yong | Binghamton, NY | 07-20-2026
Yong, sixty days on the market in a two-week neighborhood can give you negotiating leverage. A property that has remained available for more than 60 days may indicate that it was initially overpriced, previously had a deal fall through, needs repairs, or has not attracted the right buyer. Here's what I tell buyers: Have your agent contact the listing agent and gather as much information as possible. Information on previous offers, price history if already been reduced, why earlier buyers did not move forward, and whether the seller has a preferred closing date or other priorities. Your offer should be based on recent sales and the home's condition, anticipated repair costs, and current demand, not simply on how far below the asking price you would like to go. Presenting supporting market data makes a lower offer feel like a legitimate business decision rather than an attempt to take advantage of the seller. You may be able to negotiate closing cost assistance, repairs, a mortgage rate buydown, or certain appliances and fixtures. In return, you might offer stron financing in the form of a substantial earnest-money deposit, flexible closing dates, or shorter contingency periods if needed. You should also decide in advance how much you are willing to increase your offer if the seller counters. Do not waive your inspection, finamcing, or appraisal protections to make a lower-priced offer appear stronger. A 60-day market time can open the door to negotiation, but the strongest approach is respectful, support by comparable sale, and structured around both your nees and the seller's priorities.
Asked by Kelly A | Atlanta, GA | 07-18-2026
Kelly, the main difference between being pre-qualified and pre-approved for a mortgage is the level of financial review the lender conducts. A pre-qualification is usually a preliminary estimate based on financial information you provide, such as your income, debts, assets, and estimated credit standing. The information may not be fully verified, so it gives you a general idea of how much you might be able to borrow. In contrast, a pre-approval is a more detailed evaluation. The lender reviews your credit report and verifies documents such as pay stubs, bank statements, tax returns, employment history, assets, and monthly debts. Because the information has been reviewed, a pre-approval provides a more reliable purchasing budget and carries more weight with sellers when you submit an offer. Neither one guarantees final loan approval. The mortgage must still go through underwriting, and approval may depend on the property appraisal, your financial circumstances remaining stable, and satisfaction of the lender's other conditions. In simple terms: pre-qualification helps you begin planning, while pre-approval helps you begin seriously shopping and making offers.
Asked by Elena | Rochester, NY | 07-18-2026
Elena, cosmetic issues usually affect the appearance rather than the home's stability. An example of this is peeling paint, worn flooring, cracked plaster, outdated fixtures, and small hairline cracks that have remained relatively consistent over time. These items may require repairs, but they are generally manageable and can often be addressed gradually. Potential structural concerns are things to look for, like floors that slope noticeably or feel unusually soft or bouncy, doors and windows that repeatedly stick, wide or stair-step cracks in foundation walls or exterior brick, walls that appear bowed, and gaps between walls and ceiling, or cracks that are wider at one end. Water stains, sagging ceilings, missing roof shingles, musty odors, and active moisture in the basement or attic may also indicate roofing, drainage, or foundation problems. Older homes may settle over time, and some movement can be normal. During the walkthrough, take photos and notes, but avoid trying to diagnose the property yourself. A qualified home inspector can evaluate the entire home, including the roof, foundation, drainage, attic, basement, electrical system, and plumbing. When the inspector identifies possible structural movement, foundation damage, or roof failure, ask for an additional evaluation from a licensed structural engineer or roofing contractor before moving forward. The goal is not to find a perfect older home; the goal is to understand which repairs are routing which should be negotiated, and which could affect the home's safety, value, or long-term maintenance costs.
Asked by Renee | Greenwich, CT | 07-17-2026
Renee, the easiest way to remove private mortgage insurance, or PMI, depends on the type of mortgage you have and how much equity you currently have in your home. If you have a conventional loan, contact your mortgage servicer and ask for its PMI-removal requirements. You may generally request cancellation once you laon balance reaches 80% of the home's original value, provided you are current on your payment, have a satisfactory payment history, and do not have another lien on the property. Your request may need to be submitted in writing, and the servicers may require an appraisal or other property valuation. PMI is generally required to terminate automatically when your scheduled loan balance reaches 78% of the home's original value, as long as your mortgage payments are current. You do not have to wait for automatic cancellation if you qualify to request it earlier. If you have an FHA loan, you are paying mortgage insurance premiums, or MIP, rather than conventional PMI. Different cancellation rules apply, and refinancing into a conventional mortgage may be necessary.
Asked by Angela | Bentonville, AR | 07-17-2026
Angela, being offered a different agent within the same brokerage, is not necessarily a bad idea. It seems the brokerage is trying to resolve the situation while keeping your listing, and a new agent could bring better communication, stronger marketing, and a fresh perspective. Before agreeing, ask the proposed agent to explain exactly what they would do differently. You should receive a clear plan covering pricing, professional photos, online exposure, open houses, buyer and agent feedback, and how often you will receive updates. Ask whether your home's price and condition are competitive with similar properties currently selling in Bentonville. If the brokerage cannot provide a meaningful new strategy or if you have lost confidence in the company, you may still want to request a full cancellation. Review your listing agreement carefully for the expiration date, cancellation terms, fees, and any protection period that could apply after termination. The most important issue is not whether the agent works for the same brokerage. It's whether the new agent has the experience, communication style, local market knowledge, and specific plan needed to get your home sold.
Asked by Nora | Denver, CO | 07-17-2026
Nora, a low appraisal does not mean the purchase is over, but you will need to review your contract and act before the applicable appraisal and financing deadlines. The lender generally bases the mortgage on the appraised value rather than the agreed-upon purchase price. Your main negotiation options include: Asking the seller to reduce the purchase price to the appraised value; You and the seller split the appraisal gap; Pay some or all of the difference and proceed with the original price by bringing additional cash; or negotiate seller concessions for the difference. The best strategy depends on the size of the gap, your available cash, the strength of the comparable sales, the seller's motivation, and the exact language in your purchase contract. Have your agent and lender review the appraisal immediately so that no contractual notice or objection deadline is missed. In most case ask the seller to amend the purchase price.
Asked by Emily H | Palm Springs, CA | 07-16-2026
Emily, yes, you may be considered a first-time buyer again, even if you owned a home in the past. Many mortgage and down-payment assistance programs define a first-time buyer as someone who has not owned and occupied a primary residence during the previous three years. If it has been at least three years since you had an ownership interest in your primary residence, you may qualify under the first-time buyer definition. Ask a lender to check the exact requirements for the assistance program you are considering. So, the answer is potentially yes: depending on the program, after three years without owning your primary residence, you may be treated as a first-time homebuyer again. Brenda Ashby, REALTOR® | DRE 01700249 JohnHart Real Estate SRES® | Probate & Trust Specialist Serving Palmdale, Lancaster, Santa Clarita, Los Angeles and surrounding areas 📞 310.488.2592 📧 [email protected] 🌐 brendaashbyrealtor.com IG: brendaashby_
Asked by Austin R | Iowa City, IA | 07-16-2026
Austin, great question, and congratulations on taking the first step toward homeownership! When purchasing a home, it's important to understand the difference between pre-qualified and pre-approved. Pre-qualified is usually the first step. A mortgage lender estimates how much you might be able to borrow based on financial information you provided, such as your income, debts, and savings. It doesn't necessarily mean your information has been verified. Pre-approval is a more detailed process. A lender reviews your credit history, income, employment, debts, and financial documents to determine how much you qualify to borrow. You'll receive a pre-approval letter showing your potential loan amount.l You'll know you're pre-approved when a mortgage lender has reviewed your financial information, including your income, credit history, debts, and assets, and issued a pre-approval letter stating how much you qualify to borrow, subject to the lender's conditions. If you haven't received that letter, contact your lender and ask about your status. My advice: Get pre-approved before you begin shopping for homes. It helps establish your buying power, shows sellers you're a serious buyer, and allows you to focus on homes within your budget. Being pre-approved doesn't guarantee final loan approval, and you don't have to spend the maximum amount you're approved for. Best wishes on your homebuying jorney, Austin! Brenda Ashby | REALTOR® | JohnHart Real Estate }| DRE License # 01700249
Asked by Raul Venegas | Rancho Palos Verdes, CA | 07-15-2026
Raul, there is no single "best" area for every household. The right choice depends on budget, commute, preferred home style, school needs, and whether your family prioritizes ocean view, larger lots, walkability, privacy, or access to shopping and services. Here's a look at these communities: Rancho Palos Verdes offers the widest variety of neighborhoods and housing options. Areas such as Silver Spur, Los Verdes, Point Vicente, Vista Grande, Miraleste, and Eastview are popular with families. Rancho Palos Verdes is known for coastal views, parks, hiking trails, larger residential neighborhoods, and access to shopping around Peninsula Center. The eastern neighborhoods may also provide a more convenient commute toward San Pedro, Long Beach, and the Harbor area. Palos Verdes Estates is known for its established neighborhoods, tree-lined streets, coastal scenery, and classic homes. Lunada Bay is popular for its ocean views, nearby schools, parks, and neighborhood shopping district. Montemalaga offers larger hillside properties and expansive views, while Valmonte is valued for its mature landscaping and easier access to Torrance and Redondo Beach. Rolling Hills Estates may appeal to families looking for a more central Peninsula location, larger lots, an equestrian atmosphere, horse trails, and convenient access to schools, shopping, restaurants, and neighboring South Bay communities. It often provides a balance between suburban convenience and the Peninsula’s quieter lifestyle. Rolling Hills is a private, gated community known for multi-acre properties. Unified School District, but school assignments should always be verified for each specific property address. Raul, you should consider touring all four cities at different times of day and comparing commute times, school boundaries, home prices, lot sizes, neighborhood topography, insurance considerations, and proximity to the activities and services that are most important to his family.
Asked by Raul V | Rancho Palos Verdes, CA | 07-15-2026
Raul, yes, the most serious and highly publicized land movement has been concentrated in the Greater Portuguese Bend Landslide Complex. The Xity currently maps the Portuguese Bend complex along with the Abalone Cove and Klondike Canyon landslide districts. Recent boundary changes also added several properties in the Seaview neighborhood and one in the Portuguese Bend Beach Club area. That doesn't mean every home in Rancho Palos Verdes is located in an active landslide. However, properties outside Portuguese Bend can still have hillside, drainage, soil, retaining wall, foundation, or slope-stability concerns. Before purchasing, you should check the exact parcel on the City's landslide GIS map to determine whether it's inside or near the Greater Portuguese Bend Landslide Complex, Abalone Cove Landslide Abatement District or Klondike Canyon Landslide Abatement District; You should review every seller disclosure and natural hazard report; You should hire an independent specialist who is a CA certified engineering geologist and qualified geotechnical engineer to evaluate the lot, foundation, drainage, retaining walls, slopes and surrounding terrain, no just the house itself; You should research the property's City records and review permit history, geology approvals, soil reports, conde violations and unpermitted repairs; Make sure you confirm whether or not the property can be insured before moving contingencies; Confirm financing and guture marketability, and lastly investigate assessments and ongoing obligations to determine whether the property is subject to landslide-abatement district, geological hazard district, special assessment, maintenance obligation or proposed mitigation project. Don't automatically rule out Rancho Palos Verdes; just make the purchase property-specific and investigation-driven.
Asked by Pedro | Brentwood, MO | 07-14-2026
Pedro, choosing the right listing agent is an important decision because the agent will help you determine your pricing strategy, prepare and market your property, negotiate with buyers, and manage the transaction through closing. Before hiring an agent, consider asking a few questions: How familiar are they with your neighborhood and local market; How will they determine the listing price; What is your marketing plan for my home; How will they help you prepare the property for sale; How will they communicate throughout the process; and What are your fees and what services are included. Most importatnly, choose someone who listens carefully, communicates honestly, and explain the process clearly.
Asked by Edith R AshfordClyburn | Newark, NJ | 07-14-2026
Hi Edith, yes, there will be some cost to add your son to the property deed. Adding his name changes the property's legal ownership, so a new deed must be prepared, signed, notarized, and recorded with the Essex County Register of Deeds and Mortgages. The county recording fee currently begins at $45 for the first page, plus $10 for each additional page. You may also have attorney, deed-preparation, notary, title-search, or filing costs. New Jersey generally exempts a deed transfer between a parent and child from the state Realty Transfer Fee, but the correct exemption forms and language must be submitted with the deed. Before adding your son, I strongly recommend speaking with a New Jersey real estate or estate planning attorney. Once he is added, he becomes a legal owner and may need to agree to any future sale, refinancing, or transfer. His ownership interest could also be affected by his debts, lawsuits, divorce, or bankruptcy. The transfer may also be considered a gift for tax purposes and could affect the capital-gains tax basis he receives. In some situations, leaving property to a child through an estate plan may provide better tax treatment than adding the child to the deed during your lifetime. An attorney or tax professional can review your goals and recommand whether a new deed, trust, will, or other estate planning option would be more appropriate.
Asked by Linda Wolaszek | Yarmouth, MA | 07-13-2026
Linda, yes, 55+ communities in South Carolina may have additional monthly or annual fees beyond the regular HOA dues. The exact costs depend on the community and the amenities and services provided. Additional fees may include club or recreation fees, golf memberships, lawn maintenance, security, cable, or internet packages, community activities, special assessments, and one-time capital contributions or transfer fees when purchasing the home. You should review the community's HOA budget, fee schedule, rules, and recent meeting minutes before purchasing. Ask whether there are any special assessments that are currently due or anticipated and how often the HOA dues have increased. Once you identify a specific South Carolina community, the listing agent or HOA management company should be able to provide a complete breakdown of all required fees.
Asked by Char | San Antonio, TX | 07-13-2026
Char, a kick-out clause is a real estate contract rule. It allows a seller to accept an offer but keep showing the house to other people. It is usually used when a buyer needs to sell their old home before they can buy a new one. How it works: your offer says you will buy the house, but only if your current house sells first (contingent on selling your current home). To protect themselves, the seller accepts your offer, but adds a kick-out clause. In some cases, another buyer comes along and makes a better offer. The seller then comes to you and gives you a short time to make a choice. You can either drop your house-sale contingency and buy the house right away, or you can walk away and get your earnest money deposit back.
Asked by James | Boston, MA | 07-13-2026
James, one of the biggest mistakes sellers regret after listing is starting with an unrealistic asking price. It's understandable to want the highest possible return, but overpricing can cause a home to sit on the market, miss the initial surge of buyer interest, and eventually require one or more price reductions. When that happens, buyers assume something is wrong with the property or believe the seller is becoming desperate. If the home is priced correctly from the beginning, you attract more showings, create stronger competition, and ultimately sell for more than an overpriced listing. Since your plan is to sell in the next 6-12 months, now is a good time to avoid several related mistakes: Don't wait until the last minute to prepare the home (deferred maintenance, clutter, outdated paint, and poor curb appeal can reduce a buyer's perceived value); Avoid making expensive renovations without consulting a local real estate professional; Don't choose an agent based solely on the highest suggested list price, ask each agent to explain the COMP sales, current competition, marketing strategy, and pricing recommendation. Lastly, be prepared for the selling costs, inspection negotiations, moving expenses, and possibility that your ideal timeline may change. Plan early and good luck.
Asked by Andrew | Redding, CA | 07-11-2026
Andrew, wildfire exposure can vary from one Redding neighborhood or even one street to another. Properties near open land, canyons, hillsides, or dense vegetation are more difficult or expensive to insure. Start by checking the exact property address on California's official Fire Hazard Severity Zone map. The most important step is to obtain insurance quotes before removing your insurance or inspection contingency.
Asked by Maddie | Fort Lauderdale, FL | 07-10-2026
Maddie, your agent is likely correct that the seller is comparing the certainty of each offer. A cleaner offer gives the seller confidence that the buyer is financially prepared, will meet the contract deadlines, and is less likely to cancel or renegotiate. Here are a few things you should consider: a larger earnest money deposit; shorten the inspection period to seven days and make sure that it is workable; make sure your inspector is available immediately. In Florida, you may also need enough time to evaluate the roof, electrical, plumbing, HVAC, insurability, flood exposure, and a four-point or wind mitigation inspection is needed. Be flexible with the closing date; possession, or a short post-closing occupancy period, may matter more to the seller. Before submitting the next offer, ask your agent to find out what the seller values most and request feedback on your previous offers. Then decide in advance if you should maximum purchase price, offer a larger deposit, or shorten the inspection period, and decide which contingencies you are unwilling to waive. Winning an offer is only worthwhile if the contract remains financially safe and the home is still a sound purchase for you.
Asked by Jessica Sharma | 40831 | 07-10-2026
Congratulations on purchasing your first home. Based on what you described, the important question is whether the deed has only been signed or whether it has actually been recorded with the County Recorder. If the deed has not yet been recorded and your official closing date is July 15, the seller will normally receive the net proceeds after the deed records and escrow officially closes. Signing the documents does not necessarily mean the transaction has closed. Escrow holds the funds and documents until the conditions in the written escrow instructions have been completed. However, if the deed has already been recorded and you are now the legal owner, the seller would typically receive the proceeds shortly after recording. The seller remaining in the home until July 15 would normally be handled through a separate seller-in-possession or rent-back agreement. I recommend contacting escrow and asking them directly. The escrow officer can review the actual instructions and explain exactly when the seller will receive the remaining funds. Do not release keys, change the occupancy arrangement, or make a separate payment directly to the seller without first speaking with your agent and escrow office.